Presence and Massage
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Massage therapy & meditation go hand in hand; When I do my work, most of the times I try my best to be fully present with my clients that way I can assure my client is receiving quality work (not like that “cookie cutter” massage you get at some franchises). I know what feels great according to the specific muscles, I can feel what needs to be released, and I’m often very detailed. Let’s say a new client would like to try a professional massage and it’s their first time, I will ask the client (especially if I sense some anxious or nervous energy) that they’d allow themselves to surrender not only in the physical sense- letting go & remain passive as I manipulate their limbs (& sometimes engaging the muscles depending on what I'm trying to accomplish)- but also in their mental as well; allow yourself to let the thoughts go by as you are being the observer, not reacting to it but sensing it & allowing it to happen without you trying to control what thoughts pop up- controlling or engaging in those thoughts- be fully present with right now- I ask that you also observe my touch & notice your breathing- just focusing on those two may become a meditation for you. There are all types of meditation & this type of meditation is a mind & body connection... so many people are not very connected which may result in injuries if they don’t know about being self-aware. If you do what I ask- at least try your best & each session should get better. Especially if you have a restless mind, the first session might be tricky but overall, It should be a relaxing experience & by the time the session is over, you’ll come out feeling refreshed! If you were able to clear your mind (without forcing to clear your mind...just let the mind go like your heart beat it will do what it has to do just let it happen and observe without entertaining what thoughts pop up automatically)- give your mind a rest while you just feel the sensations you get from this work you receive. When it comes to meditation, meditation in my sense meaning to be fully present in right now without having to be stuck in the future or past- meditation in a sense that whatever activity you are doing you are fully conscious in that activity. Meditation can rewire pathways in the brain. It just takes effort, time and continuous training. Many people constantly worry. Although some stress may be good.... too much can age a person. With meditation, you think a whole lot less unless you actually need to think about whatever it is at that moment- nothing that is dramatic- a play on your story whatever that is, but for the most part meditation is about this present moment what can be achieved by allowing oneself to be fully there- not letting distractions cut that connection- that mind body connection is a powerful tool. Being one with your body helps with sports, martial arts, coordination etc. Not only do you benefit from my massage therapy work- I do as well. I keep myself engaged & completely focus on right now- what I do- everything else just fades. I’m completely in tune with the given moment, in tune with what's real right now in front of me & doing what I can, what I feel is right. Often times, I feel like I’m in a flow state & the time just scurries fast. To be honest, It makes my work more enjoyable. I like what I do & I know you will love my work. So come and meditate with me, let’s be fully present together & relax & let go & feel the benefits of my work whether it is to help you with muscle issues/ pain or connecting to yourself more & training your mind to be still.
Alanna Harley, LMBT #17646
